The Science of Anxiety + How to Stabilize Once You're Triggered

 
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Are you experiencing a lot of anxiety recently?

Does it feel unsolvable?

Like your anxiety attack will like it will never end?

What if you had tools to help ease your anxiety in the moment?


As you know, May is Mental Health Awareness Month and we’re getting serious about mental health over here on The Refined Collective Podcast. Two weeks ago, I spoke with Trauma Therapist Kobe Campbell all about therapy (tune in here if you missed it). And last week, I shared my own experience with anxiety and practical ways to identify your anxiety triggers outside of the moment (tune in here if you missed it). This week, I wanted to share how you can stabilize your anxiety when you’re in the moment.



A Collective Anxiety

  • Why are we experiencing so much anxiety? Collective depression + individual anxiety + trauma + relapses—from living in + through a pandemic — we’ve never done this before. 

  • Brené Brown talks about FFT ‘It’s the F-ing first time’

    • Listen to her talk about it in this podcast episode.

    • The older we get, the less we like trying new things. Trying new things is vulnerable and we don’t want to suck! Normalizing discomfort is our secret sauce

  1. Name it

  • What’s coming up? THIS IS THE 1ST PANDEMIC!

  1. Perspective 

  • This is not going to last forever

  1. Reality Check

  • Nothing is going as planned and that’s okay

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The Science of Anxiety

  • Our thoughts activate our minds, then our minds activate the body, then our body activates fight or flight.

  • Symptoms like: dizziness, head rush, tingling, heart palpitations, paranoia, hyper-vigilance, can’t breathe, legs feel like jelly




3 Parts of the Brain

  1. NeoCortex/Prefrontal Cortex: rational, logic, problem-solving 

  2. Limbic: emotions, feeling, memories

  3. Reptilian/Primal: survival

  • When we’re triggered, the Primal Brain gets activated and the other two shut down.

  • In order to reactivate the others, you have to let the Primal Brain know you’re safe.


How do you speak to the Primal Brain to reactivate other two parts of our brain?

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4 Things to Do In the Moment:

  1. Pause

  2. Breathe

  • Mindful breathing

  • DO IT NOW // 4 DEEP INHALES + EXHALES

    • This activates the parasympathetic nervous system, meaning you feel safe and your body stops pumping cortisol and adrenaline.

    • Quitting cigarette smoking is hard, in part, because it involves deep breathing.

  • BOXED BREATHING (Navy SEALs use this!)

    • Try it now (4x)

  1. Simple truths:

  • I am safe and at home in my body

  • I am here.

  • I can breathe.

  • I can feel discomfort and still be safe

  1. Ground

  1. What are five things I can see? 

  2. What are four things I can feel? 

  3. What are three things I can hear? 

  4. What are two things I can smell right now? 

  5. What is one thing I can taste?



Resources


Stay tuned for next week’s episode, where I’ll lead a guided meditation!


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