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I woke up on a Sunday morning feeling waves of grief from my recent heartbreak. If you want to hear more context for that heartbreak, you can listen to this episode from last year and last week’s episode. I feel lonely. It’s hard making friends in general, let alone during a pandemic, after a cross country move, and while you’re not going to church. I knew that church had been a source of community for me, but it wasn’t until I left that I began to understand just how much it brought me. In this episode, I just want to share where I’m at and see if you’re feeling the same way.

Who Am I Outside of Church?

• Real Talk: making friends is hard.

• Who am I outside of my role as a small group leader in church?

• Who am I without the weekly rhythms of involvement at church?

• What do I really believe outside of the groupthink?

• Am I brave enough to ask these big questions?

Thinking outside the box

• Going to group fitness classes hoping to make friends.

• Inviting my friends over on Sunday nights to blast worship music, dancing, and praying.

What have you been trying? 

Where are you at in all of this? 

Is this a place where we can build that community together? 

Next week on the podcast, I’m talking about dating non-Christians…go to Patreon.com/therefinedcollective and you can listen to it now (ad-free) and have access to a ton of other Patreon exclusive content.

Do you long for meaningful friendship but aren’t sure how to make friends, how to keep friends and fight fair, or know when to walk away from a friendship? I’m hosting a workshop with Therapist Blake Blankenbecler, who specializes in friendship, on Thursday, February 24th at 8:30pm EST. There are multiple ticket options available— register here: https://therefinedwoman.mykajabi.com/friendship-workshop

Resources

• Sign up for the Adult Friendships 101 Workshop here.

• Listen to next week’s episode early (and ad-free) here.

• Join Patreon at the $5/month level to get access to monthly group coaching calls. 

• Check out Rockefeller Center on IG at @rockefellercenter and Twitter at @rockcenternyc

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