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The Refined Man Is Abandoned
The Refined Man Is Abandoned
The Refined Man, Life, InspirationadminApril 21, 2015the refined man, kat harris photography, Hillsong Church, beyonce, manhattan, new york city, God, inspiration, growth, 2 Corinthians, bible, Tim Timberlake, gratitude, godly datingComment
Then I Did Something I Never Thought I'd Do...
Then I Did Something I Never Thought I'd Do...
Inspiration, News, LifeadminApril 17, 2015kat harris, career change, Dallas, new york city, bible, God, fashion, style blogger, Beth Moore, christian women, style, the refined woman, Seasons, transition Comments
begin | my birth story part 1
begin | my birth story part 1
Inspiration, Motherhood, LifeadminApril 7, 2015birth story, emily scott, motherhood, parenthood, home birth, doula, back labor, elizabeth messina, pregnancy Comments
OUTFIT | Wedding Guest At Long Last
OUTFIT | Wedding Guest At Long Last
Style, LifeadminApril 1, 2015wedding, photographer, Rocksbox, Adrianna Papell, summer styleComment
The Refined Man is VULNERABLE
The Refined Man is VULNERABLE
The Refined Man, Life, Inspiration, WellnessadminMarch 26, 2015yoga, Yoga Vida, new york city, tutti del monte, mind body balance, mindset, The Yoga Adventure, kat harris, the refined man, the refined collective, vulnerability, wellness Comment
Beauty is... Celebrating Everyday | Lauren Sims
Beauty is... Celebrating Everyday | Lauren Sims
Beauty Is ---, Life, InspirationadminMarch 24, 2015Life, lauren sims, Beauty Is, LOLO Magazine, Dallas, christian women, boss lady, girl boss, shauna nieguist, celebrating life, rest, BeautyComment
OUTFIT | The White Button-Up
OUTFIT | The White Button-Up
Style, LifeadminMarch 19, 2015kat harris, white button up, the refined woman, style, style blogger, fashion, fall fasion, tutti del monte, lean wardrobe, jcrew, simplicity Comment
Who Am I Without the Titles
Who Am I Without the Titles
Beauty Is ---, Inspiration, LifeadminMarch 17, 2015kat harris, winter style, winter, Self Confidence, self love, Relationships and Loving Yourself, Pepper Brunch, Cyndie Spiegel, dreaming, God, purpose, writer, photographer, female entrepreneur Comments
This is Really About That
This is Really About That
Sexless in the City, LoveadminMarch 4, 2015calligraphy, dating, faith, love, sexless in the city, rob bell, dating advice, christian dating, christian dating advice, know your worth, God, the refined collective, jenna kutcher, new york city Comments
Fashion Week for the Real World
Fashion Week for the Real World
Inspiration, Style, LifeadminFebruary 26, 2015real talk, fashion week, emily scott, kat harris photography, the refined woman, fashion, blogger, new york city, winter style, winter Comment
How to Dress Your Bridesmaids
How to Dress Your Bridesmaids
Style, LifeadminFebruary 22, 2015kat harris, wedding, bridal, bhldn, darling magazine, models, stylist, Adrianna Papell, amsale, anthropologie, jcrew, nordstrom Comment
Why I go to Fashion Week
Why I go to Fashion Week
Inspiration, News, Style, LifeadminFebruary 20, 2015fashion week, fashion, darling magazine, kat harris photography, kate spade, alice + olivia, herve leger, new york city, photographer, Brooklyn blogger, photographyComment
Beauty Is...Vision
Beauty Is ---, Inspiration, News, LifeadminFebruary 11, 2015Beauty Is, goal setting, new years day, Simon Sinek, vision, freedom from fear, dreaming, dream to change the world, Embrace Your Journey, community, community not competitionComment
Pretty in Pink
Pretty in Pink
Style, LifeadminFebruary 10, 2015lean wardrobe, freda salvador, apartment 34, san fransisco, melissa hoffman, emily scott, em the gem Comment
Pizza + Wine | What a Girl Wants...
Pizza + Wine | What a Girl Wants...
Sexless in the City, LoveadminFebruary 3, 2015calligraphy, What a Girl Wants, Los Angeles, brooklyn, dating, dating advice, dating help, godly dating, new york city, christian dating, christian dating advice, kat harris, romance, love Comments
big hat long hair don't care
big hat long hair don't care
Style, LifeadminJanuary 28, 2015emily scott, the horse, erin jane designs, catbird nyc, josh gruetzmacher, stylist, street styleComment
Let's.  DO.  This.
Let's. DO. This.
Inspiration, LifeadminJanuary 26, 2015kat harris, melissa hoffman, scarlet + gold shop, wedding, Lifestyle, photographer, the refined woman, know your worth, goal settingComment
Beauty Is...Embracing YOUR Light
Beauty Is...Embracing YOUR Light
Beauty Is ---, Life, WellnessadminJanuary 22, 2015Embracing your natural self, Embracing Imperfection, how to embrace my sexuality, Beauty Is, tutti del monte, boudoir photography, self love, know your worth, storytelling, the refined woman, Reformation, Beauty, authenticity, authentic living, photography, photographer Comments
SAY WHAT?!
SAY WHAT?!
News, LifeadminJanuary 18, 2015blogzilla website, tumblr, the refined woman, kat harris, emily scott, fashion, style bloggerComment
An Unexpected Invitation
An Unexpected Invitation
Sexless in the City, Life, LoveadminJanuary 18, 2015dating, kat harris, dating advice, godly dating, waiting until marriage, waiting for sex, sexless in the city, kat harris the refined woman, purity culture, how to embrace my sexuality, christian dating, christian dating advice, christian womenComment
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#blackouttuesday BLACK LIVES MATTER.
Yesterday #georgefloyd was brutally murdered by police officers—they still haven’t been arrested. Before that, #BreonnaTaylor was shot 8x when armed officers burst into her home unannounced looking for someone who was already in custody.
This is my first IG post in over 5 months y’all! I’ve never gone this long without posting since I downloaded the app almost 10 years ago. 
Here’s what I learned from my IG break:

1. I own my social media. Social media doesn’
Double Tap if you struggle with comparison + jealousy!
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I might as well have said: double tap if you are you human!! Comparison does a few things:

1. Comparison keeps me stuck in PRIDE: because I’m either elevating myself over another or putt
What we repeat, we strengthen.
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Its worth repeating: what👏 we 👏repeat👏 we 👏strengthen👏.
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So repeat after me:
I am safe. 
I am seen. 
I am loved. 
I am accepted. 
I am worthy. 
I am enough. 
I have the right to be here. 
There’s room at t
Repeat it until you believe it. You are the girl for the job. Tag a buddy that needs this message. Let’s do this ladies!!! XO,
Kat
 
 

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