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Should I Pray For My Husband?

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We’re told that we should pray for our future partners…

It makes sense, right? But like how…and what does that even mean? Not to mention dating, finding a person who is a good fit, and committing to them for the long haul — those aren’t things we want to navigate without God. 

The problem is, nobody ever teaches us HOW to pray for our future husbands. (Nobody teaches us how to pray for our single or dating lives either!)

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If you’re anything like me, you’ve found yourself wondering…

- What am I supposed to pray for exactly?

- Is there a healthy way to pray for my future marriage, and if so, what is that right way?

- Is there anything else I can be specifically praying for?

- Are there things I can be praying about now that will help me be ready for marriage when the time comes?

- What about my life today? How can I grow as a person and in my faith right now, so I’m the woman I want to be no matter my relationship status?

- And how do I make sure I’m setting myself up for an awesome future, while still savoring my life in the present?



If you’re looking for a resource to walk you through all of this, my dear friend Stephanie May Wilson created the perfect journal for you.

Introducing… 

EVERY SINGLE MOMENT

100 Powerful Prayers to help you Savor the Present and Prepare for the Future

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Here are just a few of the things Every Single Moment will help you pray for:

  • Your life today — asking God to help you take chances, go on adventures, and make this season of singleness rich, transformative, and wildly fun

  • Your friendships and your faith — asking God to help you form deep friendships, and an even deeper faith that will carry you through all seasons of your life

  • Your identity — asking God to help you discover and embrace your identity in Christ (It’s time for you to feel as beautiful and wonderful as you are!) 

  • Wisdom and strength to keep from settling for a life (or a relationship) that’s less than God’s best for you

  • Abundant peace as you trust God with your love life in a whole new way

  • Your future marriage and future family

  • And so much more…

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Here’s a sneak peak of a really beautiful journal prompt for Day 10:

Imagine the day you meet your future husband. Close your eyes if you like. Picture the scene. Where are you? What are you doing? What is your first interaction like? Once you have a few of those details sketched out in your mind, move your attention to yourself. Who are you on the day you meet your husband? What qualities and characteristics are true about you? What does your life look like?

Make a list of a few things you want to be true about yourself on that life-changing day, and then spend a few minutes praying over them with God. Ask Him to help you take steps toward the version of yourself that you hope to be.

What a powerful tool Stephanie May Wilson is sharing with all of us!

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