Book Launch — The Refined Woman

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sexless@2x.png — Sexless in the City

**A sometimes sassy, sometimes painful, always honest look at dating, desire, and sex.**
Not having sex was easy.
But that was because my dating life looked more like the Sahara Desert than anything else. All of that changed when I moved to New York City. Thrust into a fast paced dating scene, I found a set of rules was not a compelling enough reason to keep my clothes on.
Growing up at the height of the purity movement, I knew this much: good Christians don't have sex until marriage. However, in the wake of an outspoken, albeit damaging, purity movement, the church has become largely silent on the topic of singleness and sex. More and more women of faith feel discouraged with Christian dating, riddled with sexual shame, and unequipped to navigate singleness in today’s culture.

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How will Sexless in the City support you?

You’ve ever wondered what the Bible really says about sex.
You’re tired of hearing mostly men who got married in their early 20s tell you how to date; it’s not that what they’re saying isn’t true—it’s just they have NO idea what it’s actually like to date in today’s culture.
Navigating physical boundaries in your dating relationships is a
STRUGGLE FEST.
You grew up in purity movement or evangelical Christian culture and were taught a set of rules about sex and dating with little to no vision.

You’ve felt shame over your sexual past, desire, or sex drive.
You’ve been told it’s a woman’s responsibility to protect men from
lust.

You don’t know why you keep getting stuck in the friend zone.
You don’t know why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men.
You’re not waiting until marriage to have sex, + you want to hear a
wild story about a 30-something single virgin woman living in NYC
navigating hook-up culture.

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Sexless in the City isn’t a theological exposé proving to you why or why not you should have sex.

It’s not a set of rules (I think we have about enough of those, don’t you?). It’s not a 10-step guide to meet your husband. Much to my dismay, there’s still no formula for that.

But it is my story; my messy, imperfect, doubt-filled, sometimes funny,sometimes sassy, sometimes painful journey to discovering God’s heart for sex, sexual desire, and singleness. Together, we can learn to walk this season out with clarity, hope and freedom.

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Sexless in the City Resource Guide

I wish I could be in person, eye to eye, unpacking all that this book covers, but I can’t. So I made you this.

This SIC Resource guide includes discussion questions, journaling prompts and exercises that are designed to walk you into those deeper places, and shine a light into those cracks, crevices, and shadows of your heart.

Whether you go though the book solo, or want to start a Book Club, this Resource Guide will help guide you into healthy conversations surrounding: God, dating, faith, sex, the Bible, dating, and much more!

I hope these guided questions and prompts will give you the space to seek clarity, God, wholeness, and freedom from shame and fear.

XO,

Kat

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