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New seasons call for new basics, and for me, it’s not just the change from summer to fall, it’s the shift from being me to being mom-me … slightly more
lazy relaxed with my wardrobe, and just maybe being forced to invest in more practical fashion choices.
This Cuyana Tote is a new favorite staple - and it’s both functional and beautiful. I’m always finding that I have to carry 3x the amount of stuff with me these days - and everything fits in here while still looking sleek.
This sweater from StyleSaint is another new favorite. I want it in every color. And I love that it can be worn as both a crew neck or a v-neck. It drapes so beautifully and is so comfortable.
I had really wanted these distressed black skinnies but I was also hesitant to make the purchase since my pant size is still fluctuating a little since having the baby. I happened to find some Levi’s at the local thrift store and all it took was a little distressing with a cheese grater and voilá. My new favorite skinnies.
And it’s okay if they get a lil spit up on them since they were only $3.
Love the option to monogram that Cuyana has!
Recently I had one of those nights where it had been a LONG day with the babe and I just needed to get out. I’m so thankful for a husband who is willing to watch the baby whenever I need him too. And I made my way to Nordstrom to pick out a fresh shade of Red lipstick for Fall.
It was the best investment both for my mental health at that time and for my everyday life too - it feels so good to have a fresh shade throw on when I need a little pick me up.
You know how when Katniss goes to the Capital in the first Hunger Games, and everyone is dressed so weird + is trying so hard to look cool and be unique and blah blah blah?
Ok…well that’s sort of how Lincoln Center during New York Fashion Week is. It can be a lot of what I like to refer to as “pea-cocking”. People walking around “pretending” to be on their cell phones answering an extremely important “email”, but really they’re secretly hoping that someone would please, please, puh-lllllease take their picture and feature it on Women’s Wear Daily.
My personal goal when I’m walking up to Lincoln Center to go to a show: DEAR JESUS, PLEASE DON’T FALL ON YOUR FACE IN YOUR 5-INCH HEELS THAT YOU CAN’T WALK IN”.
At the JCrew presentation a few days ago, a few of my friends and I just decided to have some fun with the whole Lincoln Center experience. Life’s too short to take yourself seriously…even at New York Fashion Week…especially at NYFW.
Frederick a.k.a. such a HAM.
Then I found a super cute girl so I had to snap a “real” street style shot:)
Then this tall woman passed me, and I was like “Hey that looks like Karlie Kloss”.
My friends response: No…that’s not Karlie Kloss.
Me: YES IT IS….and the win for me…(because it was).
Honestly though how darling is she? Can’t you just see us being friends? (totally right?) Her + Filmmaker Casey Neistat were making some sort of iPhone video…can’t wait to check that out.
Lot’s of selfie takin’ at Lincoln Center. Amy Stone you’re probably the cutest.
More pictures… he’s jumpin’ for joy.
And one of the hardest working women at NYFW: Sara Kerens ladies + gentlemen. The cutest Southern Fashion Photographer taking NYC + the world by storm. Get. To. Know. Her.
Do you remember Em + I’s first Fashion Week together a few years ago + how we met Jenna Lyons and it was sorta the best day of our lives? (#kiddingnotkidding)
If you know anything about Em + me you know we love us some Jenna Lyons. She is one of our style icons. In the last decade she has completely turned JCrew into one of the most across the board wearable All American classic brands. Jenna Lyons is JCrew.
As a photographer we also look up to Bill Cunningham. He is the Father of Street Style. You know you’re a photographer at Fashion Week when everyone is gawking over the celebrities + you’re gawking over the person taking the photo. That was me at JCrew yesterday. Everyone wants to be shot by Bill, and he’s this old little man just doing his thing, pushing people out of the way, doing his job.
So you can imagine the level of my excitement when Jenna pushes past the crowds and says “Bill let’s take a selfie”! She pulls out her phone + they start taking some iPhone pics.
Basically two of my biggest fashion + photography icons are in front of me taking pictures. I grabbed the above picture, and it’s now one of my favorite pictures from any show I’ve attended/shot.
Anyways, the show was incredible; it made me so excited for Spring Summer 2015. I want one of everything!
These two boys were just darling. They kept leaning over and telling secrets + when I asked them what they were talking about they just smiled at me. (I can only assume they were talking about how much loved me right?)
This lovely gem stole the show in my opinion. She embodies the All-American girl + also my favorite type of clothing a.k.a. clothes comfy enough to be sweats, yet also extremely fashionable!
This was one of my favorite looks + something that I can see myself wearing Fall + Spring to be honest.
But this gal’s outfit was my favorite. I love a good army green + loved the mixture of different textures: the pleated skirt with the army jacket. I am so down for that.
I’m just going to go ahead + put this out in the universe: I think this guy has a crush on me. I mean look at those eyes (don’t try + tell me it’s his job to eye-flirt with me…I like to think he only gave those eyes to moí).
Another favorite outfit. I love how JCrew takes classic silhouettes and makes them so modern; it makes it easy to purchase a few pieces each season + build upon them. (Like this classic pleated skirt)
This lovely lady wins the award for Best EyeBrows #ammiright?
And there is Miss Lyons just being her fierce, powerful self.
At first I thought Bill was taking my photo, but he was really taking the photo of the lovely European model next to me:)
You know I love a good white-on-white look.
I found it interesting that for the most part the women’s looks were much more put together than the men’s looks. I mean I love the above, but it seems like women are dressing more up + men are dressing more down these days…thoughts?
Style influencer Nick Wooster above.
For the men it was all about the bandana look around the neck; it reminded me of the 90s when my mom put scarves around our necks in elementary school. I sorta loved it.
And again…Miss Jenna Lyons for the win folks. Bravo Jenna for another fabulous collection.
All Photos by: Kat Harris
Check out some of my favorite current JCrew Looks for the Fall below…
A few weeks ago one of my friends said that we wear colors that we’re naturally drawn to + that those colors say something about who we are on the inside. At first I thought this was a little weird, but then he told me what it meant.
He said blue symbolizes truth, trust, loyalty, wisdom, confidence, intelligence, faith, and heaven.
Now that stopped me in my tracks, because it does speak to a lot of who I am and who I strive to be on the inside. I think we are drawn to things in this world that envelope beauty, authenticity, and truth.
And maybe…just maybe that’s why I’m so drawn to blue.
Am I crazy? Maybe, but that’s ok:)
Also, full disclosure Em picked out this outfit for me when I was visiting her a few weeks ago! I love when she plays dress-up with me!
Photos by: Em
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Photo Courtesy of Kallima Photography
This week Conscious Magazine published the below article I wrote about parts of my past. My soul feels naked and exposed having these words out there for you and the world to read. I have felt more vulnerable in the last few days than I have in a very long time, but what I want more than anything is for people to know that in brokenness there is HOPE. God is good. He is faithful, and his promises abundant. If just one person can connect with my story, and be encouraged then I am grateful to have shared it!
Everyone has one, and it shapes who we are, what we think, and the way we interact with ourselves and the world around us.
Story has the opportunity to tear down or create. Story has the power to change my life, your life, the world, and the generations after us.
I choose to believe that my journey has power.
I choose to believe that one person indeed has the power to impact generations. What if we all got to the place where we believed our unique individual stories mattered so deeply that we collectively changed the world together? Hand in hand united for the greater good. A story is a spark, a small flame with the power to blaze an entire forrest…if we choose it to.
Freedom begets freedom. Creativity begets creativity, and it all begins with a story.
Here is a bit of mine.
From the outside it looks like I grew up in upper middle class in Dallas Texas, one of six kids, made good grades, was captain of the Varsity tennis team, went to state, and later played on a full ride college scholarship, was involved in church, and had a ton of friends. You could say that my life was pretty suburbia. Sure my parents split when I was 10, and both remarried but that is seemingly pretty normal these days…right?
Yet, in between the lines of a storybook childhood there were moments, days, and years, riddled with fear, heartache, and brokenness in my heart and in and throughout my entire family.
What really was going on for the majority of my high school and college life was a life where my father abused alcohol and drugs. My holidays were filled with broken promises, dad simply not showing up, or showing up under the influence. Intervention after intervention and nothing would stick longer than a few months. Memories upon memories of living with my dad in the summer and him disappearing for days at a time only to return home shirtless, shoeless, without a car or dime to his name.
Over and over again my heart was broken; it got to a point where it felt like such a bloody mess that I decided no one could come near. I decided that my heart was not worth fighting for because if it was then my daddy would stop using. If I was worth it, he would do whatever it took because he loved me, because he loved my sisters and brother. But nothing I ever did was ever enough.
I tried finding my worth in grades, in sports, in boys, and later on men, and nothing quite answered my question: am I worth it? Am I beautiful? Am I lovable? Am I enough?
Near the end of my college career I mourned the death of my father. Even though he was still alive he was light years away from living. I watched him go from being a successful business man to a homeless man on the streets of Dallas who lost everything and everyone that was precious to him. I lost all hope that he would ever be sober on this side of life.
Then something miraculous happened.
Over my senior year of college my Dad got sober. I could hardly believe the transformation that was taking place before my eyes. He started calling me everyday to let me know he was sober, in a program, was living a life surrendered to God, and that he loved me. This went on for months. I begged him to stop calling, told him I did not want him in my life and that my heart could not handle another heart break.
But my father persisted nonetheless, and looking back I needed him to pursue me during that time. My wounded heart needed to know my father loved me, and would do whatever it takes to restore a relationship with me and my brother and sisters.
And he did just that.
What seemed like an irreparable situation was repaired.
What seemed impossible was more than possible.
What was broken is now fixed.
What was death is now abundant life.
My dad is almost 8 years sober now, and has a redeemed and beautiful relationship with each of his children. He is one of the greatest heroes of my life.
Through this immense pain in my family I have learned about hope, identity, value, redemption, forgiveness, and the reality that love is messy!
So much has transpired in my heart, in my family and throughout our lives over the last 8 years. I have come to believe the message in my soul that I am to share with the world is that there is HOPE! My question of worth has been answered: I am enough, I am beautiful, I am worth the fight…and guess what: so are YOU!
My message is for young women to know their value, and their unimaginable beauty and worth. That I, we, as women are beautiful and of infinite value because of WHO we are not WHAT we are.
My vehicle for this message is photography and my lifestyle blog. I am a voice to my family, to my community, to the world that love actually does win. That beauty is more than skin deep. I want to change the way we as a culture view beauty. I want to see diverse women on the covers of magazines, I want to see young ladies chasing their dreams with reckless abandon. I want my story to ignite fire inside the hearts of young people that your story, who you are, where you have been, where you are going matters!
We live in a world full of damage and heartache, but I believe that truth sets people free and story changes lives. Take heart, and have hope for I believe nothing in this universe is so dark, so lost, so broken that it cannot be repaired.
We are a resilient creation, teaming with hope. So go ahead…share your voice. The world needs you.
"Blue is the new black".
-says The Refined Woman.
There could not be a more true statement in my life right now that my should resonates so deeply with.
It may have felt a bit quiet on the blog the last month; it’s not that I have wanted to be distant; it is that I am fighting for presence and balance in my life. To be fully present, to live connected in each moment at hand…now that is a task that is a grand one for me!
Over the last month I have had some extraordinary adventures:
- My 21 year old sister graduated UT in Austin, and I got to visit her for a few days + experience how truly amazing Austin is…I could definitely live there!
- Then I flew straight to LA for a leadership program I am involved in + spent the weekend in community, growth, and challenge.
- I photographed my best friends little sister’s wedding in Dallas.
- Went wedding dress shopping with one of my best friends in Manhattan.
- Flew to Big Bear CA. to have a day in the quiet, and stillness doing a ropes course that bonded me together with a community of people more deeply than I ever thought possible.
- I hired our first ever intern! Woo-hoo…can’t wait for y’all to meet her!
- And soooo much more…
I am exhausted, but my soul is in abundance. I am connected to myself, my family, my community in ways that I am incredibly grateful for. It’s been almost a month since I’ve slept in my amazing cozy Brooklyn apartment, and I cannot wait go sleep in my little nook, however I look back at the moments over the last month and pinch myself because I cannot believe this is the life I get to lead.
A life of passion, adventure, possibility, romance, depth, authenticity.
My heart is overwhelmed with gratitude.
Jen is one of my best friends. We worked at Invisible Children together years ago, and now I get to stand next to her at her wedding next month! My LA girlfriends threw her an amazing bridal shower complete with a mimosa bar, and a flower crown making station!
Oh ya…and then I chopped my hair off!! Ahhh…my dear friend + world changer Rachel Burney (who has cut my hair the last almost 6 years) cut my hair, and I feel like such a sassy, sexy woman! Rawrrrrrr y’all!
Before heading out to Chicago for my cousin’s wedding last week I got to spend a few lovely moments with Mara. She is a precious soul, so elegant + feminine!
Let’s be honest…roadtrips are the jam, and I got to road trip with 3 of my 5 siblings to Chicago for my cousin’s wedding. Two days in the car, meant lots of games, Beyonce dance parties and…
BRAID trains…duh!!! My 13 year old sister Lilly is becoming such a lovely young woman! She’s getting so big!
Since I’ve been living out of a suitcase for a month I knew I wanted to keep things simple when thinking of what to wear to my cousin’s wedding. So my go-to JCrew LBD + chunky necklace + red lipstick did the trick!
My cousin Meg basically had my dream wedding on her parents farm outside of Chicago! The ceremony was quite and intimate, spilling over with love and joy! And of course corn hole + photo booth + yummy food made the evening even better!
This picture just makes me laugh; it’s all my sisters + we’re trying to figure out how to pose for our PhotoBooth Pic…hahaha Lots of dynamics going on here!
We danced until the wee hours of the morning, laughed a lot, drank yummy wine, and told stories from growing up together. My soul was filled to the brim.
Now I’m back in LA for a few days, and have already experienced so many lovely things in the last 24 hours. Yesterday I got to witness sunrise at Santa Monica pier for the first time with some close friends + then photographed one of my amazing world changing friends Dianna (more to come on her later!)
If you’ve made it this far on today’s post…bravo! Thank you for connecting with me!
I’m overwhelmed with gratitude at the people God has put in my life + the adventures he continuously allows me to have! The story that God has for our lives are always infinitely more creative, spontaneous, and adventurous than any we could think up on our own, and I’m so grateful to be on this journey with Him.
“…life is too short not to wear seersucker in the summer.”
Check out my full Weekend Getaway Article on Verily Magazine today!
Summer is just steps away, and for some of us we’re already in the midst of it! Summer to me means spontaneity, adventure, eating watermelon that drips down my fingers and usually onto my clothes, impromptu trips, and long dinners outside with friends and loved ones.
My biggest goal when traveling whether for a fun 4-day weekend getaway or a month journey is to: KEEP IT SIMPLE, and here is how I do it!
LIMIT YOUR OPTIONS!
How many of you ladies like to give yourselves at least 7 options a day for outfits? (Wait…I’m the only one?) If you are going on a 3 day trip, pack 3 outfits, and allow yourself one extra option. To keep your clothes from getting wrinkled, pack cotton and jersey knit fabrics that do not wrinkle easily. Bring items that you can wear multiple ways. What do I pack for a weekend getaway? Well…I’m glad you asked!
- Maxi Dress
- Seersucker Shorts
- White Oxford
- Jean Jacket
- Gladiator shoes + Wedges
- 1-piece bathing suit (modest is hottest!)
- Fedora Hat
- A chunky bold necklace
- Summer Tote to carry it all in!
With less than 10 items you can have a diverse wardrobe for at least 4 days if not more! Here’s how:
- The Maxi Dress: This piece is great with your jean jacket, gladiator sandals, necklace and tote and viola you’re ready to board your plane. (If you’re brining the Fedora wear that too so it doesn’t get ruined enroute). Once you arrive to your destination your maxi dress now becomes the perfect beach cover-up! Grab your suit, some magazines, and sunscreen and hit the beach. Now it’s time for dinner, and you can glam up your maxi with a chunky necklace, wedges and some red lipstick! From travel wear, to beach cover-up, to a night out the maxi dress is not only comfortable and feminine, but extremely versatile
- Seersucker Shorts: Because it’s summer, and why not? Again throw on you gladiator sandals and blouse and you’re ready for bike rides on the beach. Swap out the sandals for wedges, throw on some lipstick and fun jewelry and you’re ready for happy hour (don’t forget your jean jacket…it can get chilly at night!).
- The White Oxford: It’s no secret I love a good Oxford, not only for their functionality, but they’re so darn cute. The Oxford over your one piece with the fedora, gladiator sandals, tote, and you’re ready for the beach. Throw the oxford over the maxi dress in the afternoon with wedges, fedora, and tote in hand, and you’re ready for an afternoon of exploring the city! Of course you can wear the oxford with your seersucker shorts, and chunky necklace. (You can’t get much more preppy than that!).
Overall ladies, be organized, check the weather, and just have lots of fun!…and remember life is too short not to wear seersucker in the summer!
Photos by: Bekah of Kallima Photography
The Blue Oxford | See the Full Post at: Verily Magazine
Fun, flirty, classy, elegant, easy, and versatile.
After experiencing my first real East Coast Winter, being a recent city transplant from LA, more than ever I am so grateful for the new life that comes with spring. From the cherry blossoms to floral skirts to wedges to cocktails on NYC rooftops everything about it is simply magical!
Sigh…I am falling in love with this city all over again! With Spring and summer come my favorite seasons to dress! Full of colors, flow-y skirts, patterns, and the freedom to have lots of fun with your wardrobe!
Now, I almost can audibly hear a collective yawn from those reading this article right now, but before you dismiss this piece as something only your grandmother would wear please hear me out!
The classic button down oxford is an investment piece well worth its price tag. Not only will it be worn to office meetings, but will be a constant companion to garden parties during the summer, concerts, coffee dates, and days or nights out with friends.
Whether you’re 16, 29 (and holding), or in your 60s the oxford is a wardrobe essential that will last throughout the seasons and decades of your life. Fabric quality and fit are essential when choosing an oxford. Remember ladies quality over quantity, and the best part about investing into staple wardrobe items are their versatility.
Recently I came across the Japanese brand Kamakura that is known for their out of this world quality on men’s shirts. They developed a women’s line, and their blue oxford has been a new best friend of mine!
Go, go, go, get yourself a quality oxford ladies. Or dust off the one you have had in your closet, but had no idea how to wear it! Go on ladies…have some fun, take some chances, and stay classy!
Y’all spring in the city is M A G I C A L! I simply am smitten, and my soul is melting. Spring is the season of new life, of rebirth, and with my first experience of a true East Coast winter (#polarvortex) I see spring with whole new eyes.
There is so much gratitude in my heart for the sun, for walking out of the shaded side of the buildings into the sunlight; it’s a new day. A new season filled with hope, longing, desire, and most importantly action.
My quiet dreams of winter are now compelled into action with the birth of Spring.
I feel like a new person friends, and we’re only a few weeks into this magnificent season!
I cannot wait to share more with you about the dreams + visions of my life that are being activated with the coming of Spring.
Get ready folks. I’m back.
Photos by: Chaz Cruz